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HelloCowTheCowsSayHelloTales from the winding backroads

 Issue 5                                         October 2006

Good lordy. What happened to October... Quick... Gather the cows around. We need to get this newsletter out today....

The Cows Say Hello goodbye OCTOBER

October was all about ... finding new horizons... being called to play a bigger game ... being mesmerised by the local guinea fowl ... revisiting old hopes and dreams ... catching up with distant friends... crying ... laughing ... and living large ... updating my website ... losing a website (oops) ... getting employed (!) as a psych (!) ... and a whole lot of other things that rattled my "I know what's what" cage. A perfect month.

The Cows Say Hello NA NA NO NO ! YES IT'S NANOWRIMO TIME! 

Sharpen your pencils. 

Limber up your typing fingers. 

NaNoWriMo begins 1st November!!

There is no dilly dallying, if you have a book in you that you’ve been putting off for years, it’s time to head over to www.nanowrimo.org and register for the 2006 National Novel Writing Month. It begins on Wednesday, 1st November, and you will have 30 days to write your 50,000 words of novel greatness (or great novelty).

The emphasis here is on quantity not quality, so dig out your cliched dialogue, tired metaphors and clunky foreshadowing. It’s time to have some fun.

I’m looking for my editor now.

The Cows Say Hello SCHOOL REUNION! SQUEAL! 

Oh. My. Gawd.

I went to my 20 Year High School Reunion earlier this month. Unlike all those popular notions of school reunions being places of feeling worthless and insignificant (because you finally realise that you’ve done sweet f.a. for the last 20 years), I had a ball.

If you ever want to see the world through your teenage eyes then take a trip on the reunion train. It’s the most amazing experience. Not only did I see all my former classmates as they were - and in their full potential as teenagers - but I saw myself through their eyes. And there was so much love and acceptance. These were the people who had already witnessed me at my best - and worst. 

At 17 I expected to have a full and exciting life. I didn’t know what it would look like, but I had worked out a few things that I thought would be cool. Twenty years later I was faced with the hopes and dreams of my 17-year-old self, and the hopes and dreams of my classmates.

I hated school. I resented every moment that it kept me from the “real world”. I longed for a life among “like minded people” and yet what I found on reunioning is that I shared so much with these people that the “like minded people” I sought were already in my midst. I was so focused on our differences that I missed what we actually had in common.

It's something I'm still learning.


The Cows Say Hello QUOTE

"What I do is me, that is why I came."

- Gerard Manley Hopkins

The Cows Say Hello COME ON, GET HAPPY 


Apparently, most people don’t know what makes them happy. 

Sure they can rattle off things that give them moments of pleasure, but that enduring sense of well-being? Nup. We’ll have to get back to that one. Let’s go buy another plasma tv.

So where did all this happy talk come from. Well, I’ve been writing an article on Flow and reading the work of Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi (see herefor a brief synopsis of Flow) … and his extensive research on optimal experience suggested that while the majority of people were happy when "doing things", they weren't very clear on what made them happy.

More recently, happiness seems to be popping up in surveys everywhere. In fact one was just misquoted (or misrepresented) in this weekend’s paper. Weekend Australian columnist Stephen Matchett tells us that “a recent survey suggested that most Australians want the Government to help us to be happy”. Now this isn’t sourced but the most recent survey by The Australia Institute on Australian Attitudes to Happiness and Well-Being did ask questions about happiness and the government, so I’m assuming this is the survey Mr Matchett refers to.

However, if you read the report you would realise that the survey question was heavily loaded toward anyone being left of good ol’Attila responding in the affirmative when asked “A government’s prime objective should be achieving the greatest happiness of the people, not the greatest wealth.” Agree or disagree. Personally, I’d like the government to look after those things that give us a safe, just and peaceful society with our physical needs met. And leave the happiness to us thanks.

The good news is that there are people looking beyond consumerism for their happiness and well-being. At last count, The Wellbeing Manifesto had just over 7000 signatures so there is hope. I love this thing. It’s saying, hey we must look beyond economic growth… because it sure as heck hasn’t made us happier. The Manifesto has nine areas that it believes a government could and should enact policies to improve well-being.

The Wellbeing Manifesto

1. Provide fulfilling work
2. Reclaim our time
3. Protect the environment
4. Rethink education
5. Invest in early childhood
6. Discourage materialism and promote responsible advertising
7. Build communities and relationships
8. A fairer society
9. Measure what matters


Read more at www.wellbeingmanifesto.net

Here at The COWs Institute, we’ve been working on our own manifesto. We have been conducting focus groups across the paddock and have found that The COWs Happiness Manifesto consists of four areas:

The COWs Happiness Manifesto

1. Green grass
2. Open fields (with shade trees)
3. Plenty of clean water
4. No farmers.


I was lobbying against the last one… but the Cows are rather persuasive.

As a compromise, they have let me post my Manifesto For Life on the big Silky Oak for all creatures to see. It consists of:

TW's Big Four: Manifesto for Life

1. Clear mind
2. Healthy body
3. Loving heart
4. Free spirit


The Cows were a little concerned that I’d left out things like soul and fulfilling work, but I sort of think they are covered by the Big Four. And as I said to them: "It's a work in progress". That floors them every time.

What do you think? What are your criteria for a deeply fulfilling life? What gives you enduring happiness?

The Cows Say Hello FILIM  

Ssshhhhhh! It's The Secret!

After a number of highly credible recommendations, I finally checked out The Secret from the local video store. 

I can see why people like it. 

I was definitely feeling much more elevated in spirit after watching it (or was that the caffeine and sugar?). And it’s not that it says anything new, it’s basically a 90 minute film about the Law of Attraction - that is, you get what you focus on. 

And while I’m hesitant to say anything but wonderful things about this film - for fear of what super magneto force it may inflict upon the butterflies and rainforests of the world - but I cannot stay silent any longer. 

I cringed for the first 20 minutes of this film. 

The words “low rent version of What the Bleep” and “a cast of snake oil sellers” were perhaps even bandied around. There. I’ve said it. The universe can do with me as it chooses but the emperor ain't wearing any clothes folks.

That said, if you need lifting up and aren’t bothered by cheesy, made-for-tv production, this would probably be a nice alternative to the latest chick flick.

What are you focusing on? And what are you attracting?

The Cows Say Hello SENSEI

Sensei Sez: Words from the wise kitty [in haiku]

SenseiFocus

Singular focus.
The mind is sharp and aware.
Now. Time to eat bug.

[Haiku makes more sense if you download the pic]

The Cows Say HOOROO COBBERS 

Daisy

Until next month...
have a great time
Trish

ps the cows say hello!

 

The Cows Say Hello is published somewhat monthly by Trish Weston.

The Cows Say Hello’s objective is to share a little bit of the hoopla of amazing stuff that comes into my world as I'm out here talkin to the cows.

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